Below is a post from TIKTOK that I came across while trolling a few rooms there. It's terribly toxic for men that have their shit together. Single, possibly divorced for a few years, financially sound, and living in your own peace is so valuable.
I guess I'm too naive to think I can find someone on this site. But where else is a single mother to go when men turn away when they find out she has a child? My man did a terrible thing when he started cheating on me while I was still pregnant. I was devastated when I found out about it and had to leave him. It wasn't an easy decision, even though it was an obvious one. I had a young child in my arms who needed a father and a man who could support him. Now I am alone and the loneliness torments me. Perhaps there will be some real gentlemen on this site who can accept me as I am. Perhaps that could be you?
No, I would never become a super simp to a single mother. My current peace is more valuable to me than trying to get between a mother and her children. Fighting for access to her time will be the worst time ever. Always arguing about her kids and what they need. You simply become another monetary resource, hoping to be compensated with the occasional sexual tryst.
Never take on the responsibility of another man's seed. Keep that in mind, no matter how sexualized she presents herself to you. You are the prize. Being a stepfather is a loss on every level.
Be warned.